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Mirror Community Application

Welcome to Meet at the Mirror — Austin's antidote to dating apps, where intentional humans swap endless swiping for IRL fun while forging authentic connections in the pursuit of love, community, and becoming better humans.

Vibe Check! This community is for humans who are:

Intentional about how they live life, build relationships, and foster community
Seeking deeper, authentic connections with real people in real life
Looking for a long-term, monogamous relationship (and totally open to making amazing friends along the way)

Complete this application to:

Apply for Mirror Community Membership*
Gain access to our vetted ATX singles community (1,400+ strong) and weekly in-person events — from sports, dancing, hikes, and cooking classes to game nights, book clubs, and relational intelligence workshops. Come for the fun and personal growth. Stay to find your person.
Join the Free ATX Matchmaking Database
Be considered for matches with our private, high-caliber clients. We connect intentional singles who value meaningful relationships. It’s completely free to join. If you're interested in becoming a private client and accelerating your path to love, be sure to check the "private matchmaking interest" box at the bottom of application.
Express Interest in a Single of the Week
If someone in the community caught your eye, enter their name in the appropriate field toward the bottom of the application. We’ll reach out if there’s mutual interest.

Join our connection revolution. It’s free to apply.

You’ll receive a response from us within 3 business days if you've been accepted.

*Our current community events are tailored for heterosexual singles aged 25-50 seeking long-term relationships. However, we’re working to expand inclusivity in our events to better serve diverse relationship preferences. If you’re outside this age range or not heterosexual, we still encourage you to apply to access our private matchmaking opportunities & educational resources designed to help you build thriving relationships.

Upcoming Experiences at The Mirror:

10/8: Group Coaching Call w/ Kristian Jaloway 🧠

10/17: Singles Rollerskating Meetup 🛼

10/23: Group Coaching Call w/ Chris Bates 🧠

10/28: Book Club – Atlas of the Heart 📚

11/1: Sacred Mirror – Singles Connection Workshop w/ Ana Rodriguez 🪞

11/9: Singles Rock Climbing Meetup 🧗

11/16: Singles Field Day @ Bathe 🏆

YOU ONLY NEED TO APPLY ONCE FOR ALL EVENTS & OPPORTUNITIES.

Personal Details

First Name *

Last Name *

Email *

we won't spam, promise ;) this is just for easier communication about events and offerings

Phone *

If you're seeing an "invalid phone number" error, try filling out the form in a browser (on your phone or desktop) instead of inside Instagram. We're working with support to fix this issue.

Gender *

Date of Birth *

Birth Location

City of Residence *

*We currently only organize singles events in Austin, but stay tuned for future cities!

Home Zip Code

Occupation / Industry *

Annual Income

Religious Beliefs

Political Beliefs

Political Belief Compatibility *

What are your interests, passions, hobbies? *

Height *

Substance Use

I drink alcohol

I use marijuana

I use party drugs

I use plant medicines

Has Children

I have children

Relationship Preferences

What does your ideal relationship look and feel like? *

Interested in *

What type of relationship are you seeking? *

Age Preferences *

Height Preferences *

Family Plans *

Values *

What have you learned about yourself from past relationships? *

How are you currently working on yourself to become the kind of partner you hope to find? *

What draws you to this community of growth-oriented singles? *

Upload 2-3 recent photos of yourself (from 2023/24) *

Include at least one headshot and one body shot

Personality Questions

Choose the one response in each pair that feels the most true for you. Go with your first gut response, don't overthink it.

Scenario 1. Choose the response that is most true for you. *

When someone is telling a story, I like to ask clarifying questions.

When someone is telling a story, I like to infer the deeper meaning.

Scenario 2. Choose the response that is most true for you. *

If recalling a past event, I remember details, like what someone wore.

If recalling a past event, I remember the overall feeling/atmosphere.

Scenario 3. Choose the response that is most true for you. *

With friends, I prefer discussing current events & shared experiences.

With friends, I prefer discussing our dreams and the meaning of life.

Optional Questions

Is there something that you would like to specifically experience at a dating event?

What is your Instagram handle?

Interested in one of our Singles of the Week?

Anything else you'd like to share?

Would you be interested in taking an online course on any of the following topics?

How did you hear about us?

How did you hear about us? (Other)

Are you interested in being featured as our "Single of the Week"? (details below)

yes, please!

Each week, we spotlight eligible singles from our database on social media to help them find a date! If you’d like to be featured, we’ll reach out to get a photo of your choice and some fun details about your bio and ideal first date.

Are you interested in joining the waitlist for private matchmaking services?

yes - please add me to the list!

We will reach out to schedule a Discovery Call if we think you'd be a good fit for private matchmaking.

I follow @Meet.at.the.Mirror on Instagram for updates

I agree to terms & conditions provided by the company. By providing my phone number and email, I agree to receive updates from the business about events & offerings.

Sharing Information: By submitting my information, I consent to the business sharing my photo, name, and contact information with mutual matches at dating events or potential private matchmaking clients. Contact information will only be shared when there is mutual interest.

NOTE: If clicking submit doesn’t take you to a confirmation page, it means a required field is missing. Scroll up and look for red text to see what needs to be filled in.